Yup, that’s me!
I’m Tega Aberare, a twenty-something year old doctor in training who is currently exploring all things personal growth and this blog is where I write about, well, everything. From thoughts and opinions, to experiences and lessons learnt, book/movie reviews, faith and lifestyle, and whatever else comes to mind.
Here, not only will you get to really know me as a person, but you’ll also get to join me on my learning journeys. I’ll help you achieve the same level of self development I’m striving for, which, trust me, is no small feat. So, stick around if you’re up for that.
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From The Blog
Just a few my recent posts to get you started
He Lived It, I learned It
Nobody talks about that kind of love. The kind that forces you stay disciplined. The kind that makes you show up daily, not in grand gestures, but in quiet choices: waking up early, staying up late, carrying burdens without complaint, showing up again and again.
You’ll Always Wonder, But You’ll Never Know
If you don’t try, you’ll always wonder “what could’ve been?”, but you’ll never know.So silence the “what ifs”. Try.
I Almost Dropped Out of Med School
I can’t count the amount of times I’ve had to do that, exams I’ve had to rewrite, results I’ve refused to tell my family about. But every time that I didn’t give up, I got one step closer to my goal.
Love, According To My Babe
And that is one of the greatest lessons she has taught me (albeit indirectly) about love. That love is, at its core, abundant. That when you love someone, you give freely, not because you have to, but because you want to.
It’s You vs. You – Read This If You Feel Stuck
Familiarity feels safe. It’s warm, and cozy, and predictable, even if it’s not helping you anymore. It’s easier to stick with what you know than try something new.
The World Wants You To Shrink, Will You Let It?
You’re not just here to exist in the background while life happens to you. You are the main event. The leading lady. The protagonist.